What should I do when I'm picked on?

Hey dude, life is crappy sometimes...dont worry about your brother or your family. just keep doing what you know is right (which is definitely getting good grades in school). Its none of my business why your dad left, mine left when i was fifteen and i got a letter in the mail three days later telling me why he left. Keep your chin (and your grades) up. Don't emulate your brother. He doesnt exactly sound like a good role model. You said you havent spoken with your dad in a while. How do you know that he would be okay with you living with him? Before you do anyhting drastic, you definitely need to talk with you dad and find out what his rules and expectations of you will be. Things might have changed since he left. Things like curfew, dating, school, etc... You should also speak with a guidance counselor or teacher at your school (someone who you trust, not just anyone) and ask them their opinion. Finally, write a list...one side will have the positive reasons for moving, the other side will hsve the negative reasons. When you get done, sleep on it for a few days. There will be more that you want to add to it.